Malaysian Customs and Etiquette – Tips for tourists to Malaysia

Malaysia is a country with fascinating people and an enthralling range of attractions. Its three major races, the Malays, Chinese and Indians, along with the ethnic traditions of the Kadazan Dusun, Iban and many more in East Malaysia make up the delightful multicultural fabric of Malaysia. The potpourri is enriched further with the influence of the British, Portuguese, Dutch and Thais.

In Malaysia, visitors will discover a wide range of customs and practices. Some of these customs may be different than what is practiced in other parts of the world. This is a guide to help visitors understand the country and its people better, for a smooth and pleasant stay in Malaysia.

Social Etiquette


In Malaysia, introductions are normally acknowledged with a handshake. In the Muslim culture, handshakes are generally exchanged between people of the same gender. Some muslim ladies may acknowledge and introduction to a gentleman with a nod of her head and smile. A handshake can be reciprocated if the lady offers her hand first to a man.

The traditional Malay greeting or salam resembles a handshake, but with both hands outstretched and without the grasp. The man offers both hands, lightly touches his friend’s hands, then brings his hands back to his chest to mean, “I greet you from my heart”. The visitor should reciprocate the salam.

Addressing a person

Malay men and women can be addressed by their first names. For instance, Amirul bin Yusof should be addressed as Mr Amirul and not Mr Yusof, as the latter is his father’s name. The term Bin means ‘son of’ and Binti means ‘daughter of’. Hence, they need not be mentioned.

Chinese people have surnames which precede their given names. For instance, a lady whose name is Chia Wei Li can be addressed as Ms Chia. Some Chinese people have English names, such as James Wong. It would be proper to address him as Mr Wong.

Indians can be addressed with their given names. For instance, Anand a/l Ravindran should be addressed as Mr Anand. The abbreviation ‘a/l’ stands for ‘anak lelaki’, meaning ‘son of’ and ‘a/p’ means ‘anak perempuan’ or ‘daughter of’.

Sometimes, names are preceded by the terms Encik, Puan or Cik. These are Malay terms for Mr, Mrs and Miss, respectively.


A number of Malaysians have been conferred titles by the Malaysian Government. Among these titles are Tun, Tan Sri, Dato’ and Datuk. It is appropriate to address them by their titles. Political dignitaries are conferred titles such as Yang Berhormat (YB) and Yang Amat Berhormat (YAB). The term Mr or Encik will not be necessary when addressing a person who has been conferred titles.

Social visits

Before visiting a home, it is polite to call and inform of one’s arrival. Shoes must always be removed when entering a Malaysian home. Drinks are generally offered to guests. It would be polite to accept.


The right hand is always used when eating with one’s fingers or when giving and receiving objects. The right forefinger is not used to point at places, objects or persons. Instead, the thumb of the right hand with the four fingers folded under is the preferred usage.


Public behaviour is especially important in Malaysian culture. Most Malaysians refrain from displaying affection (i.e. embracing or kissing) in public. It would be appropriate for visitors to do the same.

Religious Etiquette


Malaysians celebrate a variety of colourful festivals. The most grand is the Muslim festival Eid ul-Fitr, locally known as Hari Raya Aidilfitri. This festival marks the beginning of Syawal, a new month in the Muslim calendar. Prior to the celebration, Muslims observe a month of fasting, beginning from daybreak until sunset.

The Chinese community in Malaysia celebrate various festivals such as the Lunar New Year, Mid-Autumn Festival and Chap Goh Meh. Hindu celebrations include Deepavali, Thaipusam and Ponggal. The people of Sabah and Sarawak celebrate harvest festivals known as Tadau Ka’amatan in Sabah and Hari Gawai in Sarawak. Christians all over the country celebrate Christmas.

Food and beverage

Muslims consume halal food (permissible by Muslim law) and only dine in restaurants which are certified halal. Pork and alcohol are not consumed by Muslims. Hindus do not consume beef.


A majority of Muslim women wear garments that fully cover their bodies. The usage of headscarves is also common. Visitors are encouraged to take note of local sensitivities and dress modestly.

Places of worship

Shoes must be removed when entering places of worship such as mosque and temples. Some mosque provide robes and scarves for female visitors. Taking photographs at places of worship is usually permitted but request for permission first.

Business and formal occasions

Business cards

It is customary to exchange business cards with those in your business circle. Business cards are usually given with both hands or with the left hand holding up the right one. It is polite to spend some time studying the card.

Dressing for formal occasions

For men, business attire is commonly made up of dark pants or slacks, long-sleeved shirts and tie. Suits are worn during presentations and formal meetings.

The attire for Malaysian women is more flexible and creative. Working women may wear appropriate attire such as skirts, slacks or traditional costumes. Revealing attire is discouraged. Batik attire is considered both appropriate and fashionable when attending formal occasions. This unique and versatile Malaysian fabric features hand-painted or block motifs.

Working days and public holidays

Government offices

All government offices operate on a five-day week. In all states, except Kedah, Kelantan and Terengganu, offices are open from Mondays to Fridays and are closed during the weekend. Government offices in the states of Kedah, Kelantan and Terengganu operate from Sundays to Thursdays. They are closed on Fridays and Saturdays.

If a public holiday (for festivals and special occasions) falls on a non-working day, the following day will be declared a holiday.

The working hours for government offices in Kuala Lumpur and Putrajaya are from 8:00am to 5:30pm. In Kedah, Kelantan and Terengganu, government offices are open from 8:00am to 4:45pm (from Sundays to Wednesdays) and 8:00am to 4:30pm (on Thursdays). In all other states, working hours are from 8:00am to 5:00pm. There is a long lunch break on Fridays (12:15pm-2:45pm) to allow the Muslims to perform their prayers.


All states except Kedah, Kelantan and Terengganu:
Mondays – Thursdays : 9:15am – 4:30pm
Fridays : 9:15am – 4:00pm
Saturdays : 11:00am – 2:00pm (major branches only)
Sundays : Closed

Kedah, Kelantan and Terengganu:
Sundays – Wednesdays : 9:15am – 4:30pm
Thursdays : 9:15am – 4:00pm
Fridays : Closed

Most banks are closed on the first and third Saturdays of the month.

Note: This is only a general guide. Visitors are advised to obtain further information on local banking hours upon arriving at their destinations.


Most hotels and restaurants levy a 10% service charge and 5% government sales tax on bills. Therefore, tipping is not customary. However, should you want to show your appreciation for good service, a small tip will do.



All purchases are done in Malaysian Ringgit (RM). Major credit cards are accepted in most dining and retail outlets.

Hypermarkets, supermarkets and most retail outlets have fixed prices for their goods, which are displayed on the products. However, bargaining is acceptable at selected retail outlets. Bargaining is most common at night markets (‘pasar malam’), or at bazaars.

Shopping centres operate from 10:00am to 10:00pm with extended hours during sale and festive seasons.


Most eateries operate until late night. Selected eateries are open 24 hours.

Some Malaysians enjoy their meals using their fingers. Adventurous visitors can try savouring their meals with their fingers too. Otherwise, it is perfectly normal to request for cutlery.

Mealtimes in Malay villages or ‘kampungs’ will be especially interesting. Villagefolk prefer to enjoy their meals while seated on a mat spread on the floor. Here too, families eat using their fingers. Before the meal, hands are washed using a ‘kendi’, a container resembling a teapot.

During feasts or ‘kenduri’, the host and other locals will say their prayers before beginning their meal. As a close-knit society, villagers will also invite guests for second or third helpings in a warm and friendly manner. Visitors can politely decline if they do not wish to.

General information


Visitors are strongly advised to obtain adequate insurance coverage before travelling to Malaysia.

Getting there

The state-of-the-art Kuala Lumpur International Airport (KLIA) is the main gateway into the country, and services over 45 international airlines. The newly-opened Low-Cost Carrier Terminal (LCCT) is situated 20km from the main terminal building.

Getting around

The country has a well-developed and efficient public transportation system served by buses, taxis and trains. In Kuala Lumpur, the Putra and STAR Light Rail Transit (LRT), KL Monorail and KTM Komuter trains provide regular and hassle-free accessibility within the city as well as to several outlying towns. The KL Sentral Station, situated 1.5km from the city centre, is a modern transportation hub which converges various modes of transportation. Car rental agencies can be found in most cities around the country.

Note: Putra LRT is also known as the Kelana Jaya Line while STAR LRT refers to the Ampang and Sri Petaling Lines. For more information on KL’s public transportation systems, visit


In Kuala Lumpur, taxi fares are based on a metered rate and are available 24 hours a day. The flag-off rate is RM2.00 and 10 cents is charged for every subsequent 150 metres. Extra charges apply for services after midnight or for services booked by phone.

Passengers have the right to object if the taxi driver stops to pick up other passengers along the way.

Outside the city, as well as in other parts of Malaysia, taxis operate on a fixed rate depending on the distance. Airport limousine taxis (budget or premier) at the KLIA operate using a prepaid coupon system and visitors are required to make their payments at the counter.


In Kuala Lumpur, bus services such as Rapid KL, City Liner and Metrobus ply a network of routes. Feeder buses are available from LRT stations to designated surrounding areas. There is also an airport coach service which connects KLIA to the Jalan Duta Bus Terminal and Chan Sow Lin LRT Station in Kuala Lumpur.

Passengers to the Low-Cost Carrier Terminal (LCCT) in KLIA can board the Skybus Shuttle from KL Sentral Station. Feeder busses to LCCT are available from various other spots in the city.

Express air-conditioned buses are available to all states in Peninsular Malaysia. The main terminals in Kuala Lumpur are Puduraya Bus Station, Hentian Putra, Pekeliling Station and Hentian Duta. Tickets must be purchased early during festive seasons. Visitors are advised to carry adequate small change before boarding buses and taxis.

KTM Rail Service

The Keretapi Tanah Melayu (KTM) or Malayan Railway offers a well-connected rail network to all states in Peninsular Malaysia as well as neighbouring countries. Tickets can be purchased at KL Sentral.

KLIA Express and KLIA Transit

The KLIA Express and KLIA Transit are the fastest modes of transport that ply between the Kuala Lumpur International Airport (KLIA) in Sepang, and the city. A non-stop 28 minute ride on the KLIA Express will connect you from the airport to the KL City Air Terminal (KLCAT) at the KL Sentral Station. This state-of-the-art transportation hub offers flight and baggage check in services for Malaysia Airlines, Cathay Pacific and Royal Brunei Airlines. KLIA Express departs every 15 minutes during peak hours (5.00am-9.00am, 4.00pm-10.00pm) and every 20 minutes during off-peak times (9.00am-4.00pm, 10.00pm-12.00 midnight). The KLIA Transit makes three intermediate stops en route to the airport and its journey takes 36 minutes.

Note: KLIA Express and KLIA Transit are also known as the Express Rail Link (ERL) service.


The Malaysian currency is normally referred to as Ringgit or RM.

The RM comes in denominations of RM1, RM2, RM5, RM10, RM50 and RM100. Coins are known as sen. These include 1 sen, 5 sen, 10 sen, 20 sen, and 50 sen. Foreign currencies can be changed at banks, airports and money changers.


Malaysia is relatively safe country. However, visitors are advised to take certain precautionary measures to ensure their safety. Safeguard your valuables at all times. Strap or sling your bags when on the move and walk against oncoming traffic. Keep your handbags and wallets safe and close to you especially when in crowded areas. Avoid entering dark and quiet alleys.

Common phrases in English-Malay

Good morning – Selamat pagi
Good afternoon – Selamat tengahari
Good evening – Selamat petang
Good night – Selamat malam
Thank you – Terima kasih
You are welcome – Sama-sama
Excuse me – Maafkan saya
Welcome – Selamat datang
Goodbye – Selamat tinggal
How are you? – Apa khabar?
Fine, thank you – Khabar baik, terima kasih
Entrance – Masuk
Exit – Keluar
Restroom – Tandas
Road/Street – Jalan
Caution – Awas
Floor – Tingkat
Level – Aras
Food – Makanan